Do Cats Grieve??

by Left

Have you ever wondered if cats grieve after losing a beloved human?

Although the scientific evidence is slim, people often notice changes in cats' behavior following the loss of a human or animal companion.

It's not surprising when you consider the close attachments many cats form with both humans and other animals in their lives. When these bonds are cut, cats are definitely aware of the loss, and they may grieve. In addition, because cats are so sensitive to change, moving, re-homing, or being kenneled during vacations, these can all produce an emotional response similar to grieving.

A few years ago the Uncle had a stroke and had to go to the hospital. The ambulance people took him on a stretcher out the door to the ambulance in the driveway. Dusty sat at that door for days, waiting for his daddy to come home. My meowmie was concerned about Dusty being so upset, so she dug a t-shirt out of the laundry and made him a bed right next to the door. Dusty immediately lay down on the shirt and continued his vigil, waiting for his Daddy to come home. Mom also put food and water down next to the bed, but Dusty didn't eat for a couple days. He was busy waiting for his Daddy. Dusty eventually left the door and continued on his catley routine, but he was a very, very quiet kitty. After a long wait, the Uncle finally came home and the first thing Dusty did was to run to his Daddy and jump into his lap, where he stayed. So I say YES, cats can grieve.

Signs A Cat May Be Grieving
Changes in these daily behaviors may be a signal a cat is reacting to the loss of a person, place, or pet:

* Activity -- Pacing restlessly in search of the lost companion or hides and is lethargic.
* Talking -- Cries for the lost loved one.
* Attention -- Shuns affection or is super clingy.
* Sleep -- Rests more or less than usual.
* Appetite -- Is less interested in food. If kitty stops eating for more than a day, take him to the vet right away.

Ways to Respond
If kitty is showing any of the above signs, here are a few ways you can support him through the process:

* Make an appointment. Have your vet examine the kitty to rule out any underlying medical conditions.
* Stick to the kitties normal routine. If possible, put off taking a vacation, remodeling, or hosting house guests.
* Be attentive. Offer your kitty additional love, affection, and cuddle time.
* Resist the temptation to quickly replace a lost pet. It won't alleviate your cat's grief. Wait until his behavior is back to normal.

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